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Sherman Daley Bio
Sherman was born in Spanish Town, Jamaica, and moved to Canada as a teenager where he completed high school. His family later relocated to Los Angeles, where he found his faith and began his spiritual journey. Shortly after, Sherman moved to San Diego to pursue engineering, which eventually led him to a successful career as a computer programmer.
Throughout his life, Sherman has been deeply involved in his church community, leading young adult and married couples' groups, coordinating church activities, and serving as a music leader. His faith has always been central to his life as he worked to develop a close relationship with God.
After nineteen years of marriage, Sherman experienced a painful divorce. Later, God brought Semise into his life, who was also seeking a partner. They married and blended their families—Sherman with one child, and Semise with four children—and now enjoy eight grandchildren together. Their marriage faced its own challenges that led to their divorce, but through this struggle, God revealed patterns from their past and guided them to restore their marriage. They remarried after being divorced for 3&1/2 years. Their personal journey of healing and reconciliation has inspired their current ministry, where they help other couples restore their marriages. They co-founded their marriage coaching business, Marriage Restoration Ministry, Inc where they coach couples to strengthen their relationships with God and each other.
Semise Daley Bio
Semise was born in New Orleans, Louisiana. When she was a toddler, her mother and father eloped to Fairfield California and lived near her paternal grandmother, Helen. When she was 5 years old, her mother left her father and returned to NOLA with Semise. Shortly afterwards her parents divorced. She is her mother’s only child, but she has two half-sisters, one half-brother, and one stepsister from her father’s other marriages and relationships. Growing up without a stable father figure in her life was very difficult growing up. But being close to her maternal grandmother, Azena, and going to church with her was what introduced her to a solid relationship with the Heavenly Father. That introduction has led her to stay close to God and His church. She has served in the ministry in various capacities, including lending her nursing professional skills to the faith community as a Parish Nurse in New Orleans, LA, Evansville, IN, and now in San Diego, CA. She was an ordained as a Minister of the Gospel in 2005 and currently serves with her husband, Sherman, in their local church, Rock Church of San Diego - City Heights Campus, as Marriage Ministry Leaders. She is a Nationally Certified Family Nurse Practitioner, Adjunct Professor at Azusa Pacific University (APU), and also a Ph.D. in Nursing student working on her dissertation study. She has been awarded numerous awards and scholarships in her nursing career as well as served as a speaker both locally and nationally on several occasions. She and Sherman first got married in 2012, divorced in 2017, then remarried in 2020. They have a blended family of five adult children and eight grandchildren, (plus two granddogs-Peppah & Zoey). They co-founded their marriage coaching business, Marriage Restoration Ministry, Inc., where they coach couples to strengthen their relationships with God and each other to help avoid the traumatic effects of separation and divorce if possible.
Your marriage is not broken—your wounds are. And God is ready to heal them.
In this powerful combined teaching from Restored Marriages Radio, Sherman & Semise walk couples through Step 5: Healing the Hidden Wounds—the emotional injuries that silently shape reactions, triggers, communication, and connection.
Most couples try to fix their marriage at the surface level… But the REAL issue is often the wound underneath the argument.
In this full teaching, you’ll learn:
✔ What hidden wounds are and how they form
✔ Why small issues trigger big emotional reactions ✔ How past pain shows up in present conflict ✔ How to recognize when you’re triggered ✔ How to identify the original wound ✔ How to separate past pain from present moments ✔ How to grieve what was lost ✔ How forgiveness frees your heart ✔ How to replace lies with God’s truth ✔ How to create new responses to old triggers ✔ When to seek Christian counseling or pastoral support
This is one of the most important steps in the restoration journey. When wounds heal, triggers lose their power. Conversations become safer. Compassion replaces suspicion. And trust begins to rebuild.
"Many marriages don't fall apart because couples stop loving each other… They fall apart because couples stop understanding each other.
In this episode of Restored Marriage Radio, Sherman and Semise talk about one of the most important skills every couple must learn:
How to communicate without combat.
Too many conversations between spouses turn into arguments, defensiveness, or emotional shutdowns. But healthy communication can be learned — and when couples learn to truly listen and understand each other, connection can be restored.
In this episode you will learn: • Why communication turns into arguments in marriage • The hidden emotional needs behind most complaints • How defensiveness damages connection • The power of listening to understand your spouse • Simple ways to communicate without triggering conflict • Biblical wisdom for healthy conversations in marriage
This episode is part of our series: The Steps to Restoring Your Marriage
If your marriage feels stuck in conflict, distance, or misunderstanding, this teaching will give you practical tools to begin rebuilding connection.
Resources to Strengthen Your Marriage Learn more about marriage coaching and our Cruise to a Better Marriage retreats here: https://restoredmarriages.com/cruises
About Restored Marriage Radio Sherman and Semise help Christian couples restore, rebuild, and strengthen their marriage through faith, practical tools, and real conversations.
Through coaching, workshops, and marriage retreats, they guide couples toward deeper connection with each other and with God.
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If this episode encouraged you, send it to another couple who might need hope and guidance in their marriage.
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"Is pride quietly destroying your marriage? In this powerful episode of Restored Marriage Radio, we dive deep into Step 3 in the Steps to Restoring Your Marriage: Dismantling Pride and Defensiveness.
Many couples believe their biggest problems are communication, finances, or intimacy. But underneath those struggles often lies something deeper: pride.
Pride refuses correction. Pride protects ego. Pride shifts blame.
And when pride enters a marriage, defensiveness follows.
Instead of listening, we argue. Instead of understanding, we justify. Instead of healing, we fight to be right.
In this episode, we unpack how pride silently erodes connection, trust, and emotional safety — and how humility can completely transform your relationship.
Semise and I share biblical wisdom, real marriage insights, and practical steps that couples can begin applying today to break the cycle of defensiveness and rebuild unity.
If you’ve ever heard yourself say: • “That’s not what I meant.” • “You’re overreacting.” • “You always blame me.” • “I’m not the problem.”
Then this episode will challenge you in a powerful and freeing way.
Because the truth is: The goal in marriage isn’t to win arguments. The goal is to win each other back.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
✔ Why pride is one of the most destructive forces in marriage ✔ How defensiveness blocks emotional safety ✔ The difference between protecting your ego and protecting your marriage ✔ How humility opens the door to healing and restoration ✔ Practical ways couples can begin dismantling pride today
Key Biblical Principles Discussed
• Proverbs 16:18 — Pride goes before destruction • James 4:6 — God gives grace to the humble • Philippians 2:3–4 — Value others above yourselves • Ephesians 4:2 — Be completely humble and gentle
These scriptures reveal a powerful truth:
Humility invites God's restoration into your marriage.
If Your Marriage Feels Stuck…
You may not need better arguments.
You may need greater humility.
And when humility enters the room, healing becomes possible.
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New conversations every week to help couples restore what’s broken and build a marriage that thrives.
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Restoring Your Marriage - Step 2 - Rebuild Emotional Safety Emotional safety is the foundation of every thriving marriage. When it’s missing, even small conversations can feel tense, defensive, or overwhelming. In this episode of Restored Marriages Radio, Sherman and Semise walk couples step‑by‑step through how emotional safety is lost—and how God empowers you to rebuild it with gentleness, truth, and consistent love.
You’ll learn:
What emotional safety actually means in a Christian marriage
The four trauma responses (Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn) and how they show up in conflict
How to repair after emotional injuries
The Daily Check‑ In questions that help couples reconnect
How to create a home where both hearts feel seen, valued, and protected
Biblical principles that restore trust and soften communication
Whether you’re healing from past hurts, navigating blended‑family stress, or simply wanting deeper peace in your relationship, this episode gives you practical tools you can start using today.
About Restored Marriages Radio We help couples rebuild connection, emotional maturity, and spiritual unity through practical, faith‑centered teaching. Hosted by Sherman and Semise Daley, founders of Marriage Restoration Ministry Inc.
If this episode blesses you, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe so more couples can find hope and healing.-- Thanks & God Bless! Sherman & Semise Daley, Internationally Certified Relationship Coaches Business Ph. 619-853-4393 Website: RestoredMarriages.com
If you want to restore your marriage, this is where it begins.
Not with your spouse changing. Not with better arguments. Not with proving your point.
But with ownership.
In this powerful episode of Restored Marriage Radio, Sherman and Semise unpack Step 1: Accept Responsibility Without Excuses — the foundation of true marital restoration.
Most couples stay stuck because they are waiting for the other person to admit fault first. But healing doesn’t begin with blame — it begins with humility.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
✔ Why blame feels justified but blocks restoration ✔ The hidden role pride plays in conflict ✔ How defensiveness quietly destroys intimacy ✔ The “10% Principle” that changes everything ✔ How specific apologies rebuild emotional safety ✔ Biblical foundations for personal responsibility
If your marriage feels tense, repetitive, or stuck in the same arguments, this message will challenge you in the best way.
In this powerful episode of Restored Marriages Radio, Sherman and Semise dive deep into the truth about anger in Christian marriage—what the Bible says, what psychology reveals, and how couples can transform conflict into connection.
You’ll learn:
Why anger itself is not sin (Ephesians 4:26)
The psychological roots of anger and emotional triggers
How childhood patterns shape adult reactions
The four anger styles, and which one builds intimacy
What anger does to your body, brain, and relationship
Biblical tools for managing anger with wisdom and grace
Practical skills couples can start using today
Whether you’re newly married, rebuilding trust, or simply wanting healthier communication, this teaching will help you understand anger through a Biblical lens and a psychological framework—so you can grow in unity, empathy, and emotional maturity.
If this episode blesses you, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share it with another couple who needs encouragement.
If you are struggling with faith differences in your marriage, how you see yourself, your purpose, your family, and your daily life, this show is for you…!
When couples understand the dynamics, they can turn those differences into unity instead of tension.
Have you ever felt unappreciated … not value in your home … and it feels like whatever you do, it is never good enough… this episode is for you.
Today we will explore the skills of gratitude and appreciation from the Biblical perspective and look at how we can use them as a spiritual discipline, a relational skill, and a biblical command to strengthen your marriage, deepen intimacy, and shift the emotional climate of your home.
If you’ve ever felt like you and your spouse are actively building your relationship … but not necessarily building in the same direction, this episode is for you. Today, we’re diving into a powerful skill that every couple needs—Shared Vision and Growth in Marriage.
Today we discuss one of the most significant relationship skills that a couple must develop for a successful marriage, the skills needed to navigate conflicts in a way that becomes a doorway to healing and deeper intimacy.
Love in marriage is not just an emotion—it’s a conscious choice to stay devoted through the challenges. Teaching Point: Marriage is a covenant, not a contract. Commitment means choosing to love daily, even when feelings fade.
Effective communication is the backbone of any thriving marriage. It’s not just talking more, but listening actively, reflecting back to your spouse what you hear, and creating a safe space for honest dialogue.
Forgiveness is one of the most crucial qualities to possess in a relationship, especially in marriage. In this episode, we look at the role forgiveness plays in your relationship and how it can do wonders for your relationship Let us know how this series is impacting your life and marriage. We'd love to hear from you.
If you have ever wondered, will your marriage last the sands of time? Or will you end up divorced? Join us on this 3rd episode in this 3-part series on the ten main causes of divorce and what you can do to avoid them.
Continuing from the last episode, today we conclude with reasons #7 (Unrealistic Expectations / False Beliefs), #8 (Lack of Physical Intimacy), #9 (External Influences & Lack of Boundaries), & #10 (Spiritual Disconnection).
If you have ever wondered, will your marriage last the sands of time? Or will you end up divorced? Join us on this second episode in the series on the ten main causes of divorce and what you can do to avoid it. Continuing from the last episode, today we cover reasons #5 (Infidelity or Broken Trust) & #6 (Constant Conflict/ Poor Conflict Resolution).
Let us know how this series is impacting your life and marriage. We'd love to hear from you.
If you have ever wondered, will your marriage last the sands of time? Or will you end up divorced? Join us on this first episode in the series on the ten main causes of divorce and what you can do to avoid it.
Let us know how this series is impacting your life and marriage. We'd love to hear from you.
Semise is joined by four of her amazing friends—women who have walked through the storms of marriage and come out victorious by God’s grace. 🌈In this heartfelt episode, they open up about their incredible journeys:
💞 Romance—how they met their Boaz 💔 Despair—the struggles and heartbreak they faced 🙏 Restoration—how God stepped in and redeemed their marriages 🌸 Bliss—how He’s now using their stories to bless others
You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, and you’ll be reminded that no marriage is beyond God’s healing power.
Each wife also shares a Scripture that carried her through: 📖
Aly:Joel 2:25–27
Carol:Matthew 6:33
Jeannie:Jeremiah 29:11
Pastor Brenda:Proverbs 3:3–4
Grab your tissues and your favorite cup of tea—it’s time to be inspired, encouraged, and filled with hope. All glory to God! 🙌
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